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Posted on: April 16, 2025 at 11:41:12 CT
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Divorce Care group at a nearby church. I did it 18 years ago or so.

I get you may not do the church thing. But much of the information and discussion isn't about religion, it is about the practical issues with divorce and getting yourself back on track as it can really drag you down to a depressed state. Even though it has been some time it will be worth the 60-90 minutes once a week for 10-12 weeks. It ends up being a good network of friends too.

And mostly, helping get you out of a rut and into a new trajectory. It is worth a try, fully recommend it ...asap.. yesterday

At this point it is about who the new you will be and how to clear the past issues. It can be your greatest time for growth if you let it and focus on it. Makes each day a new great challenge instead of a downer

Edited by TigerFan92 at 11:42:53 on 04/16/25
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Got laid off for the first time in my life a week ago. - TheWildcat MU - 4/16 10:31:48
     WNBA (nm) - SwampTiger MU - 4/16 14:51:48
     Summer Olympics track team will be forming for 2028 - FIJItiger MU - 4/16 11:50:54
     I got mine about 7 years ago. - ERB KC - 4/16 11:26:50
          This is the right attitude to have. - CulturedDan MU - 4/16 11:29:26
               Yea, I keep trying to keep the faith that that is true (nm) - TheWildcat MU - 4/16 11:31:39
     Sorry. Hope you land one quickly(nm) - TigerFan92 STL - 4/16 11:09:55
          I feel like going to a company website and applying - TheWildcat MU - 4/16 11:12:58
               I'm a recruiter. Yes, they do, but they are generally - 90Tiger STL - 4/16 14:12:31
               here's your playbook: - phrejd STL - 4/16 11:43:07
                    all great and #4 should not be understated - write your - 90Tiger STL - 4/16 14:13:44
                    Appreciate it dude(nm) - TheWildcat MU - 4/16 12:26:26
                    what if I set my Linkedin profile to "down to clown?" - Joeboo MU - 4/16 12:00:54
                         BOAISY(nm) - cnk MU - 4/16 12:03:24
                    good list(nm) - TigerFan92 STL - 4/16 11:45:02
               this comes with a cost, but it's a good company to work with - Seagull MU - 4/16 11:20:39
               No recruiters are the way to go. If you don't have one - TigerFan92 STL - 4/16 11:13:57
                    how does one look up recruiters on LinkedIn? - TiGertim MU - 4/16 11:15:27
                         find recruiters who specialize in your industry or professio - 90Tiger STL - 4/16 14:16:11
                         Just say you're looking for work and you'll have about - kmawv8 MU - 4/16 11:29:52
                              I think we're the only shackers left. - CulturedDan MU - 4/16 11:31:28
                                   I'm not sure what this is referring to (nm) - kmawv8 MU - 4/16 11:33:53
                                        RE: I'm not sure what this is referring to (nm) - CulturedDan MU - 4/16 11:36:14
                                             Nah. Not the issue. As sad as it is, we didn't adjust - TheWildcat MU - 4/16 12:28:07
                                                  It ain't easy. Probably when we argue most is over - kmawv8 MU - 4/16 13:40:18
                                                  that sucks - having young kids was not the most - CulturedDan MU - 4/16 12:57:01
                                             Damn, I missed that part of the thread. - kmawv8 MU - 4/16 11:38:56
                                                  yeah, I checked out of the Mexico vacation thread so I misse - CulturedDan MU - 4/16 11:40:17
                                             I'm here with ya. 20+years of same wife and job (nm) - Lt. J. Dangle MU - 4/16 11:37:41
                                                  congrats on the occasional and scheduled sex. - CulturedDan MU - 4/16 11:38:54
                                                       Ha, no doubt (nm) - Lt. J. Dangle MU - 4/16 11:40:42
                                                       Are all 3 of us '83ers too? (nm) - kmawv8 MU - 4/16 11:39:56
                                                            something about that year, man. - CulturedDan MU - 4/16 11:41:55
                         So I have a bunch looking for my specific resume because it - TigerFan92 STL - 4/16 11:24:01
                              Pretty much agree with this - meatiger MU - 4/16 11:27:59
                                   Certainly part of that is true and the rest could be as well - TigerFan92 STL - 4/16 11:31:10
                                        RE: Certainly part of that is true and the rest could be as well - meatiger MU - 4/16 11:33:28
                                             yes spot checking the market level is helpful(nm) - TigerFan92 STL - 4/16 11:35:07
                         If it is known what you do, recruiters find you - meatiger MU - 4/16 11:19:12
                    Depends on the area - meatiger MU - 4/16 11:15:18
                         Not the ones that are selling their services, the ones that - TigerFan92 STL - 4/16 11:19:05
                              How do you go about making those connections?(nm) - TheWildcat MU - 4/16 11:19:30
                                   See above but connect with others in your industry so that - TigerFan92 STL - 4/16 11:25:34
                                        LinkedIn is a great network - meatiger MU - 4/16 11:30:31
                                             That's where i found my last 2 jobs(nm) - hefeweizen MU - 4/16 11:37:30
     One of the best things that ever happened to me - MU Diaspora MU - 4/16 11:07:15
     sorry, that totally bites(nm) - meatiger MU - 4/16 10:55:34
     what's the foot situation (yours or your wife's...or both)? - CulturedDan MU - 4/16 10:54:50
          RE: what's the foot situation (yours or your wife's...or both)? - Joeboo MU - 4/16 10:57:52
               oh. ****. sorry dude. I didn't know(nm) - CulturedDan MU - 4/16 11:15:06
               has T-Bone checked in on her?(nm) - cnk MU - 4/16 11:08:15
               WTF, I missed that one. Hang in there TheWildcat (nm) - Lt. J. Dangle MU - 4/16 11:01:26
               damn, he got divorced too?(nm) - TigerA MU - 4/16 10:59:46
                    the Lake giveth, and the Lake taketh away - Joeboo MU - 4/16 11:00:35
                         I was picturing house issues, not life issues. - CulturedDan MU - 4/16 11:15:44
                         maybe she was riding a sea serpent? (nm) - phrejd STL - 4/16 11:06:27
          TheWildcat has disproportionate feet, but he's still fast (nm) - Lt. J. Dangle MU - 4/16 10:55:49
          you suggesting he go OnlyFans?(nm) - TigerA MU - 4/16 10:55:37
               no, only giving counsel(nm) - CulturedDan MU - 4/16 10:56:42
     Hang in there, best to you. Be incredibly active, diligent - 90Tiger STL - 4/16 10:53:32
     That sucks but you'll be fine, you're a smart guy. - Nebraska99 STL - 4/16 10:52:24
     see if Nick will make you a Tigerboard Moderator, so you can - Joeboo MU - 4/16 10:51:48
     I was furloughed once in 2020 for a couple of weeks, it's - playhard KC - 4/16 10:49:55
          Furlough = government job=parasite(nm) - hefeweizen MU - 4/16 10:51:21
               It was not, i've never worked for the government in my - playhard KC - 4/16 11:12:32
     That sucks man. Good luck with the job search. Just a - Lt. J. Dangle MU - 4/16 10:47:42
          He would find every celebrity that would show half their - meatiger MU - 4/16 10:58:45
          dude that's not a bad idea. he has a gift (nm) - phrejd STL - 4/16 10:48:51
     that sucks.. hope you find something soon - Seagull MU - 4/16 10:42:54
          Yea, it isn't. Basically the entire lake experiment has - TheWildcat MU - 4/16 10:45:39
               what were the unforeseen negatives? (nm) - phrejd STL - 4/16 10:46:17
                    Divorce/job loss/seeing my kids 50% of the time (nm) - TheWildcat MU - 4/16 11:10:16
                         You and the Mrs split? Wtf bro?(nm) - hefeweizen MU - 4/16 11:21:01
                              Unprepared to discuss it for 9ish months. I am okay - TheWildcat MU - 4/16 11:23:29
                                   dude, you need to go to a - TigerFan92 STL - 4/16 11:41:12
                                        Sounds like good advice - DevilsAdvocate KC - 4/17 06:59:10
                                        Rough his life as turned into a country song - DevilsAdvocate KC - 4/17 06:56:15
                    all the hot dudes(nm) - MizzouAstro MU - 4/16 10:57:54
                    Tboner(nm) - hefeweizen MU - 4/16 10:49:32
                    tbone pop ins(nm) - TigerA MU - 4/16 10:49:15
                         Dammit (nm) - hefeweizen MU - 4/16 10:49:53
                    sea serpents(nm) - cnk MU - 4/16 10:48:18
                         legit lol (nm) - phrejd STL - 4/16 10:49:15
                              I must admit, I would not have foreseen them either(nm) - cnk MU - 4/16 10:50:00
                                   a good insurance guy will usually warn you. most homowners - phrejd STL - 4/16 10:56:14
                                        I can get you sea serpent protection starting at just $1/day - Joeboo MU - 4/16 10:59:11
     Sorry bro. You'll be fine with that impressive Mizzou - hefeweizen MU - 4/16 10:39:06
          i don't think he wants to have to stoop to fit through the - MizzouAstro MU - 4/16 10:39:49
               LMAO(nm) - meatiger MU - 4/16 10:56:28
               LMAO(nm) - meatiger MU - 4/16 10:56:18
               gdam (nm) - 90Tiger STL - 4/16 10:54:31
               POTD(nm) - Joeboo MU - 4/16 10:52:31
               legit lol(nm) - CulturedDan MU - 4/16 10:51:09
               snicker(nm) - cnk MU - 4/16 10:47:46
               well done, you hypocrite mfer(nm) - hefeweizen MU - 4/16 10:40:19
     Pack heat.(nm) - Carlos Rossi KC - 4/16 10:38:23
     be sure to file for unemployment - phrejd STL - 4/16 10:37:41
          Absolutely (nm) - hefeweizen MU - 4/16 10:42:29
          also, sorry to hear that. i can't imagine the disappointment - phrejd STL - 4/16 10:38:24
               his kids will get to ask about high schools though(nm) - MizzouAstro MU - 4/16 10:39:03
                    if they survive that long (nm) - phrejd STL - 4/16 10:39:55
                         they will survive and thrive on Imos and T-ravs(nm) - TigerA MU - 4/16 10:40:38
          this(nm) - MizzouAstro MU - 4/16 10:38:17
               kind of surprises me how many people don't know to do that - phrejd STL - 4/16 10:39:31
                    Really?(nm) - meatiger MU - 4/16 10:57:04
                         absolutely. a lot of people have no idea how to get - phrejd STL - 4/16 10:58:58
                              Did not know that(nm) - meatiger MU - 4/16 10:59:32
     sorry to hear that, had it happen to me a long while ago - cnk MU - 4/16 10:36:04
     damn that sucks. Been there before - MizzouAstro MU - 4/16 10:34:45
     was it related to you sleeping in your truck over lunch? - TigerA MU - 4/16 10:34:03
          Lol, it was related to a company charging above market - TheWildcat MU - 4/16 10:38:57
               You've got to love people who hire consultants then ignore - XRob MU - 4/16 10:48:14




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