You knew where this is going, so you abandoned your previous statements about loving your country and your family...
http://tigerboard.com/boards/view.php?message=18853376
...and now you are falling in line with tigermatt's passage from Ephesians (which you rejected as sufficient) in order to walk this tightrope.
But back to what you accused me of before, of being a legalist (even though it's you who hold that there is some "moral law" outlined in the Mosaic covenant that is the standard of God's righteousness). I am not a legalist, yet, the Apostle John says
"Whoever says “I know him” but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him, 5 but whoever keeps his word, in him truly the love of God is perfected. By this we may know that we are in him: 6 whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked..... Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16 For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world. 17 And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever."
Before you try to qualify what the "world" means - I'll remind you that it's the same "world" that Christ said God loved and sent his son to save.