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If I were to ever consider something serious again

Posted on: July 8, 2024 at 13:24:40 CT
Eggs MU
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like dating someone to the point of co habitation, they would be vetted early on with a couple of auto deal breakers.

- Tons of family nearby and required hangouts (unless it was mostly stuff I love to do and they were cool)
- Any hints of family drama or family that are over involved in her life
- Not financially secure
- Needy adult children, especially ones who require a lot of help with her kids
- Tons of social media posts getting worked up about things like the horrible patriarchy

In other words, good luck with that, probably best to just stay single.

Probably about 5 years after my mom passed my dad was able to meet someone like this. Really nice woman who just did her thing, didn't have a huge social life, didn't have much family contact except her sister, no kids, and really came with 0 drama. They've been happily married almost 20 years now.

Edited by Eggs at 13:25:46 on 07/08/24
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Happy being single but considering a relationship? - Eggs MU - 7/8 13:10:06
     There are tons of AITAH threads that seem like creative - tgr MU - 7/8 13:41:20
          For sure. "this can't be real" is a thought that enters - Eggs MU - 7/8 13:44:36
     Is this a question for the single, or married guys? - Ace AU - 7/8 13:19:17
          I think you are looking for the Fake Dead Wives Club... - Carlos Rossi KC - 7/8 13:21:46
               your material is stale - Ace AU - 7/8 13:28:40
                    just like - TigerA MU - 7/8 13:29:25
     There's a lot of batshyt people out there (nm) - mizzouSECedes STL - 7/8 13:17:46
     I am often quite thankful that my wife isnt the hang out - hefeweizen MU - 7/8 13:15:04
          make up your mind. Block party and have fun. Stay at - SabertoothTiger MU - 7/8 13:51:39
               I'm exactly the same. I have my circle of people - Eggs MU - 7/8 13:54:04
                    and if someone like blusox wants his kid - SabertoothTiger MU - 7/8 14:00:27
                    Often we dont have anything else going on but we just dont - hefeweizen MU - 7/8 13:57:25
               Block party are friends and we can just walk across the - hefeweizen MU - 7/8 13:53:22
                    i know. I'm just messing around. I get it and remember - SabertoothTiger MU - 7/8 13:57:03
                         It's really only the next door, across the street and - hefeweizen MU - 7/8 14:00:14
          If I were to ever consider something serious again - Eggs MU - 7/8 13:24:40
               which is worse: spending time with family nearby or - phrejd KC - 7/8 13:32:50
                    I guess that's not really a black/white situation - Eggs MU - 7/8 13:36:54
                         makes sense. choosing between the lake for the weekend or - phrejd KC - 7/8 13:41:45
                              I guess when you've been married for a long time - Eggs MU - 7/8 13:46:04
                    TRUMP CAUSED ME TO LOSE MY FAMILY!!!(nm) - hefeweizen MU - 7/8 13:34:32
                         i think there's a lot of that out there (nm) - phrejd KC - 7/8 13:36:04
                              Just dumb(nm) - hefeweizen MU - 7/8 13:37:29
               condolences for the loss of your mother at a young age - Ace AU - 7/8 13:30:25
                    Thank you DOC - Eggs MU - 7/8 13:32:14
                         My dad has to goto assisted living now. It sucks seeing - hefeweizen MU - 7/8 13:36:45
               We are moving away so the kids will have to travel with - hefeweizen MU - 7/8 13:29:40
                    Good point on geography, that makes a huge difference - Eggs MU - 7/8 13:31:55
                         Not ours. We'd have to gaf first and we definitely do not. - hefeweizen MU - 7/8 13:33:48




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