RE: now this i would like to hear about(nm)
Posted on: February 19, 2019 at 15:35:31 CT
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He would say dumb stuff like "soothing tone is all that matters"
I would tell him that is dumbest thing I've ever heard.
He would say "Well it's true"
I would ask if he thought it was okay if I ****ed strippers as long as I used a soothing tone when I told my wife.
He also said it was completely on me to save the relationship. That I had to put forth 100% of the effort on all the communication drills and **** he wanted us to do to start.
I said I refused and that marriages should be a partnership not a indentured servitude.
Plus I don't think my wife was being realistic in her responses and it was putting the focus on me.
He would ask her to rate the marriage on a scale of 1 - 10 and she would say 7.5 or 8.
I would say a 2 and then he would be like "jesus man. Do you even want to be married?"
I would say not like this. Then he would give me some micro guilt lecture on needing to put in effort when I could have just lied.